Things To Do If You Find Your Boyfriend On A Dating Site?
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you both have to put on blinders. But his prowling around on an app whose sole purpose is real-life romantic connections is a major red flag about his desire—or ability—to stay committed.
- If you know for a fact that he is online and active, and you decide you must confront him or you will die, don’t go at it in an accusing manner
- Ask Him A simple statement like “I noticed you have your online dating profile still up and perhaps I don’t understand the terms of our relationship correctly, could you help me out with this?”
- If he gives you any lame excuses. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and your options should remain open as well. That is what we call mirroring a man.
- If he gets uncomfortable or defensive, you know something is wrong. Wait for a couple of weeks, see if his profile actually is pretty active. If you find him untrustworthy, AND your gut feeling says something is wrong, Leave him.